Meeting your partner for the first time can be a little nerve-wracking. Do you agree? Will they accept you Unfortunately, sometimes parents choose to be rude, cold, or completely disrespectful, no matter how hard a person tries to be loved by their boyfriend or their girlfriend’s parents.

A young woman shared the story of getting revenge on her boyfriend’s mother on Thanksgiving, and while most Reddit users think she did something terrible, they also think it was fully justified.

She starts by explaining her boyfriend’s ex-relationship. His ex-girlfriend was his high school girlfriend. She explained: “They broke up in love and broke up. A year later we started dating. But his mother was still sad about it. I was very understanding and felt that she needed time to get to know me. The ex-husband actually grew up with them and they saw that they were part of the family.”

Her boyfriend’s mother still refuses to call her by her real name. She wrote: “The first year of my relationship my mom called me my ex until one day my boyfriend got mad and told her to be nice. She laughed and said it was just a habit. Then she started calling me under a pseudonym (Janet instead of Jenny; only fictitious names for

Just before Thanksgiving, the situation escalated. She explained: “My boyfriend has two sisters and two weeks before Thanksgiving we were invited to a barbecue at the big sister’s house. I was in the kitchen with my friend’s mother, sisters and one of her husbands. Then I told the older sister how her boyfriend complimented her husband and that my mother listened to him. Then she said loudly, “Of course! Why don’t you let Janet make a turkey this year? The two sisters laughed and looked at each other and said, “That’s a good idea!” I didn’t tell my friend what had happened.

She continued, “On Thanksgiving, we went to his mother’s house with the usual wine and dessert. I was shocked, everyone was shocked.” Look, everyone thought they’d bring the turkey, remember, your friend still doesn’t know.

A kind answer is invaluable. She said, “What? I thought Janet brought the turkey!”

The aftermath did not end well. She wrote: “There was screaming and crying and then they kicked us out. My little friend was so mad at me that he hasn’t spoken to me since. I think it’s over, but I still don’t think I did anything wrong. “! I have?”

Reddit users say she should tell her boyfriend beforehand that she’s upset that his mom didn’t call her by her real name and that she should tell him about her plan not to bring a turkey for Thanksgiving. However, almost everyone agreed that their revenge was perfect. One comment read: “You should have talked to her boyfriend. It is his family and he will bear the consequences. It’s not fair that he is cast like that. I understand your reasons, I really understand them. His mother is so terrible, and maybe his whole family too.’ But you should have gone to him. You don’t do that with a loved one. Even though his mother caused the problem, you’re really hurting him. don’t say I owe them a turkey. You should have sat on it and said, “I’m not here anymore, I can’t take this anymore. I don’t do turkeys and your mom will respect me or I’m leaving. I want you.” Help me with that. Ask someone else to do the turkey. “You should have given him a chance to defend you (unless you actually talked about it and he kept dropping the ball. Let go. In that case, go ahead).”

Other Reddit users are baffled that the friend’s mother has not confirmed that they actually took the turkey. One person wrote: “Wait – there was no follow up before the big day to confirm you actually brought a turkey? Do you think you would? Your mom wanted to ask you to roast it for her X – A turkey taking it from her house to hers is very different from bringing a pumpkin pie.”

Do you think Jenny did something wrong? Did someone insist on calling you by the wrong name?

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